You often worry for actions of other people, while they have nothing to do with you. It often seems to you that you're the only person who is guilty of all the troubles. This complex has most likely developed in you because your parents had been too strict with you and had taught you to be too contrite. This complex is bad because others often use it, and your colleagues often weigh you down with all kind of work. As a result being "guilty without guilt", you spend your life in vain worries and slowly but surely ruin your nervous system. The consequences of this complex can be very bad, although one would think that there is nothing bad in it. Try to reconsider your attitude to yourself, and you'll tale make thing from the different point of view.More »
Food for you is some kind of cult. You eat with pleasure not only healthy food. You think that one should sincerely enjoy food and shouldn't think what effect it may have on the figure. Food for you is a kind of the source of inspiration and you spare no money for different delicacies. You consider cooking a special ritual that you perform with ineffable pleasure because you want very much to give yourself a treat with something delicious.More »
Can you be a good friend?
Friendship is good, but not everybody can be good friends. Find out to which type of a friend you are.
You know how to be a good friend, and people around you value your positive qualities. You're generous, can sympathize with others and always help if you can. However, your indiscretion often lets you down. Just because it's difficult to trust you, people don't unfold their souls for you. You're not outspoken too, by turn. Nevertheless, you're of the kind of people who can grumble at somebody and teach life and then in spite of everything laugh at everything and forget it. It's your light nature that attracts people to you.More »
You're a romantic person, that's why you thing about love more often than about anything else. In relationships, as a rule, you take the initiative and try to please your man by all means. Your eloquence and good imagination always do their part and easily win someone's heart...More »
Although your creative potential is quite sufficient, you use it poorly. It's a pity! You have many makings in different spheres, you just have to notice them and allow your fancy to play round the idea, because you have good fantasy. You can speak well and know how to gain other people's favor. This talent is given to from Heaven, so use it!
You admire jokers, you yourself never mind making jokes and ever more if you're in a company of good old friends. For you, sense of humor indicates simple and opened heart of a person, that's why in in the round of your relations there are so many people who know how to cheer up and to raise the spirits. More »
You like to stay alone. Moreover, you intentionally strive for it, because you don't trust people and refrain from contacts. It must be said that you have inspiration to do something new just when you're alone, and you're happy with it. Nevertheless, you sometimes need some support. To get it, be more sociable, opened, good-natured person, don't rush to conclusions about other people and take a sincere interest in what happens around. Remember that we're social creature, ant it's easier to reveal and express yourself just communicating, not staying alone when your only friend is you yourself.More »
There are inveterate adventurers among us who are ready to get involved in any business which is attractive to some extent without having taken the trouble to analyze it's advantages and disadvantages. You're one of them. It's seldom that you think about the consequences and badly experiment. You try to extricate yourself from the hardship into which you've got involved yourself. The worst thing about it is that you draw other people into your adventures. But you should remember that richness of life doesn't consist in constant search of something new, but in reasonable analysis of what the surrounding world offers you and in the selection of what suits just you. Then you'll have the changes you need, and you'll be able to avoid the majority of trouble.More »
It can be boldly said that you don't care about public opinion. You think that there is nothing more boring than to live and to think like like everybody, according to the rules... That's why you often act according to your own opinion not according to the generally accepted views. Of course you often notice notice that people don't understand you, but you don't care about it. You have your reply to any remark, and you're an expert in finding ways out of the most difficult situations! Nevertheless, you live in a society with it's certain laws, and you'd better to listen sometimes to what other people say, for your subjective opinion is not always the right one. However, it's up to you whether you should change your attitude to public opinion. More »
Sometimes you think that the internet has taken you as a prisoner. However, you often manage to extricate yourself from it, because you value your time and understand that there should be limits for everything and that the Internet is no exception. But sometimes, you're unable to leave the virtual space and to switch back to reality, because the abundance of information is good lure, and it's not so important whether this information is useful or not. It can't be said that you're very addicted to the Internet, but if you keep letting your bad mood drag you back into the worldwide web, it will become more and more difficult to extricate yourself from it each time. You'd better turn to real friends for support, not to virtual names and avatars. More »
The world is too changeable, and circumstances may be very unpredictable. Nobody knows what is going to happen next. That's why it's nice to feel that there is a person you can rely on at any moment. It's not necessary to live together with this person. Infrequent meetings, non-committal relationships and the feeling that you're not alone in this big world will suit you very well. It's important for you to know that there's a person who will support you when you're in trouble and that at the same time, you won't have to sacrifice your own interests and freedom. If it's easy to find such a person, it's another question. But there is nothing impossible.More »
Popular superstitions seem to affect you very much. This belief brings about stress, because you always think that if you forget to complete some ritual, something bad will happen to you. If you go deep into superstitions, you'll notice that expecting misfortunes to happen to you, you attract different difficulties like a programmed alarm. If you expect something bad to happen, it will, because from all of the diversity of the world you'll notice that they are the only things that will prove your apprehensions. Invent an opposite omen, for instance, that a black cat brings luck...More »
You are one of those people for whom love is not just mutual sympathy and a set of obligations to each other, but a certain energy that is felt constantly. You believe that true attachment daily strengthens relationships and helps to do things in the name of sustaining the fire of love. As soon as you feel indifference towards yourself, your love will not remain a trace, because the ideal relationship is an endless interest in each other.More »
At the moment, you don’t want serious relationships at all because you only value your freedom and don’t believe in love very much, especially in love at first sight. You’re an interesting person, and guys have a good time with you, but you just attract them and then disappear. You prefer relationships without responsibilities, and if everybody is happy about it, there is no problem. It’s your choice, and you’re quite happy even without your significant other...More »
Not everybody can brag about such subtle understanding not only of your own wishes but of the hidden wishes of the partner as well. You understand the body language of the man you love, you feel every breath of her. The ability to completely flow into the process harmoniously cooperating with the other person is a gift that you can be proud of. It's possible because you know your own body very well and want to satisfy your partner whom you trust. Just this kind of relationship can be called ideal. And if there is some difficulty, you alway can discuss it openly but delicately.More »
What you are not really happy about at this stage of your life is the sphere of your work. You do not go to work by force, but you do not get any special pleasure from it and you are oppressed. In general, you are one of those people who do not like to stay long in one place, because they are always interested in trying something new. So be brave and try something else, you will certainly find that job that makes you really want to go to woirk in the mornings.
Your attitude to work
Find out how much time and effort you devote to your work and if you should change something
You seem to have managed to avoid excessive ardor for work. Giving enough effort to work, you don't forget about your own life which we live only once and have to do it so that later we wouldn't regret that we had wasted our time. And if your colleagues want to take upon themselves too many obligations, you won't prohibit them to do it, but you won't take their example, preferring to commit heroic acts at work only in extreme cases, but this case can't happen every day. You know how to use your time and energy, that's why it's seldom you get tired and you enjoy the work you do. Perhaps you shouldn't change this tactics even if some people think that you're selfish. You have your own opinion on this question.
You treat many thoughtlessly and it's rare that you think about the consequences. On the one hand, it's interesting to lead this kind of life, but you should be more serious and take care of your health when choosing this less eventful life. In addition, you should give up your bad habits that can not only harm you but also deprive you of many pleasures. On the other hand, you're a good interlocutor, a charismatic person, and it's always interesting with your because you're light on your feet. You're a welcomed visitor to almost all parties where you appreciate cocktails at their true value and make even the worst party unforgettable.More »
You have almost no chances to achieve serious success. This is because you're up to your eyes in complexes, quite half of which you've fabricated yourself. You always compare yourself with others and not in your favor. It doesn't give you optimism and confidence, sometimes it even complicates relationships as some people consider you as an envious woman. Everybody has his/her own demerits, but you shouldn't get a bee in your bonnet about them. If you can't have faith in yourself, learn how to treat your complexes with humor for a start.More »
What is your role in life
Many years ago Shakespeare said: "All the world's a stage, And all the men and women merely players".
Laughter is said to make life longer. If it's true, your life will be long and full of smiles and merry laughter. Undergoing any trials you hold your head very proud and laugh at your fears. This behavior may sometimes seem inappropriate and strange, but for you it's a kind of defense reaction, a way not to fall into depression. But you should also give way to negative emotions, otherwise you can lose interest for life. But emotional discharge will help you to keep taking everything with a smile.
You don't have a lot of energy, but you don't waste energy that you have. You make the impression of a reliable and self-confident person. With your presence, you can create an atmosphere of calmness and firm belief that everything will be alright. At the same time, you're a vulnerable person who takes conflicts very hard, that's why you do your best to avoid them. But if somebody hurts your feelings, you will come back at your offender because you're quite revengeful. You're a dependable man, that's why you have a conscientious attitude to work. But you will scarcely do what you promise ahead of time. In addition, you don't like any changes. You get down to everything new with with caution because you take it with distrust. Perhaps, you should be more courageous, and your life will become brighter.More »
Your distinctive feature is selfishness. Nobody says that you shouldn't love yourself, but you shouldn't forget about other people. You should remember that everything doesn't always happen the way you want it to happen. On the other hand, your stickiness and straightforwardness make other people respect you and some people even try to imitate you. Whatever people advise you, you always do everything your way, that's why it's quite hard to influence you. Moreover, you strive for originality and individuality, that's why you want to be different from other people. More »
Your attitude to love
What is your attitude to love, and what place do emotions and rationalism take in it?
You approach everything from a practical point of view. Love is not an exception. You want to love and to be loved, of course, but you don't put heart affairs to the first place. Realism, tolerance and even pride dictate you certain rules of behavior and put your sensuality into strict frames. The love that we see in romantic movies or books doesn't fit into your conception of this phenomenon. You think that you shouldn't sacrifice anything for the beautiful feeling or suffer and be torn because of emotions that seize you. Initially, your beloved is just a friend but then turns out to be the person you adore. Not every man can understand and accept your position, but if you meet such a man you can make quite an amicable alliance supported by mutual goals and plans for their realization.More »
You have a balanced self-confidence. You can be a support for yourself, the source of power but not at the expense of others. You don't trust anyone as much as yourself. You make important decisions relying on your own experience and intuition. Such harmony with yourself helps you to take life easy and to get over difficulties. Your attitude towards yourself and others can be expressed as: "Self-satisfied, satisfied with others." You have many contacts as you're outgoing and a good mixer. You have the qualities typically of people who can achieve a lot in life. Tolerance and rationality are your main character traits. It is precisely your ability to take a sober view of things that helps you to attain your set goals and achieve the result you're striving for. More »
Are you a good mixer?
By taking this quiz you will be able to find out if you are a good communicator.
You're a good mixer and an emotionalist. You mix easily with new people and that is why you have a wide circle of acquaintances. Although you're not notable for being loyal to your Friends, you always have acquaintances who are ready to help you. Normally you don't lose your mind when you land into difficult situations and you overcome such situations with the help of humor. You find it easy to keep the conversation going and behave freely and touchy-feely. You grab the spotlight of every company and can enliven even the most boring ones. You gladly share the latest news and you like to embellish everything. Moreover, you're a witty person who never loses heart.More »